RSS 2.0 - Blog FeedA perfect man, what is he like?
Definitely, each of you has her own vision of a perfect man. Some of you dream of getting an athletic boyfriend, who does not smoke and does not drink.
Others don’t care about appearance and simply want someone warm and caring by their side. Each of you is unique in these things, but there are things that unite all girls. There things that each and every girl wants to see in her man, and I decided that we need to shed some light on these ideas. Let’s forget about appearance. Really, girls are so diverse in their opinions about male appearance, that it is simply needless to discuss it all over again. I asked a few girls about their appearance opinions, and they were all different. Some like ‘dirty guys’, while others prefer classic men wearing pants and shoes. Some enjoy dark men, while others are crazy about blonds. The most interesting thing is that, despite all these differences, all girls say that what is inside is much more important than appearance, and most girls have mostly similar views on the most desired features of a man.
First, a perfect man must be honest, meaning that when he promises to call tomorrow, he must call! Also, he must be honest about his affairs and attitudes toward women. He should not lie when his girl asks him about his previous experiences with girls or cheating. However, girls usually assume that a perfect man will not be straightforward in anything concerning girls’ appearance and look. No matter how bad she may look, he should always say she looks astonishing! So, according to girls, guys’ honesty is a highly unstable construct. Ideally, they must know when they must be honest and when they can (or even must!) lie. Unfortunately, girls do not provide any honesty/lying recommendations, and most guys are fated to guess when and what they can say.
Second, an ideal guy must be funny. That is, he must have a remarkable sense of humor, so that the girl and her friends/parents/relatives love him and his jokes. However, what is it like to be funny? What kind of humor do girls really like? For example, if you are a gothic girl, do you want to see your boyfriend playing with corpses and mourning topics in front of your parents? Thus, again, we conclude that the sense of humor is a highly indefinite thing. Again, guys must decide when and how they can joke.
Finally, girls want their guys to be financially stable. This, in turn, implies that he must be independent, creative, dependable and self-reliant, as flexible and capable of adjusting to the changeable conditions of life. These are so many things a single guy must have, and still, what happens if the guy fails to earn his first million by the time he is 18? We, girls, sometimes forget that we ourselves create a guy of our dream, and they always need our support to move mountains. So, to every girl who wants a handsome, funny, honest, and financially stable guy, I will say, use your mind, beauty and creativity to create a perfect man of your own!
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