RSS 2.0 - Blog FeedYour first date… you have been waiting for it for so many days!
He is so young and glamorous, and you can’t wait to see what works between you and him! You are looking for romance and tenderness. You expect him to be attentive and active.
You simply want to feel like a woman, but the main question is what you want to do, how you should behave, and what you should say during the first date, to capture his attention. This is why it is better to decide beforehand, which topics you want and which topics you do not want to discuss.Discussing your relationships with other guys is not the best topic for any date, especially the first one. This is one of the major reasons why the atmosphere of romance is broken. You are an enigma for this guy, and you should stay the one. Do not let your weaknesses overwhelm and capture you! Better focus on getting to know each other better. This is important both for your new boyfriend and yourself. Your romantic imagination may create a colorful picture of your future with that guy, but what if he has secrets that will make you change your mind? It is better to clarify these things from the very beginning.
The best topics to discuss on the first date are neutral, such as family, job, education, hobbies and cooking preferences. Favorite songs, favorite movies, or favorite leisure times – all these things will help you find common points and interests. Try to avoid controversial topics like politics or religion – they are definitely not suitable for the first date. Rather, ask your boyfriend about the moment that has changed his life or how he would spend a billion, if he had it.
Remember, that the first date is not a police interrogation! You meet to spend time together in a pleasant way. If you feel comfortable even when you are silent, there is no need trying to produce an unnecessary word. Just be yourself and see what the guy really likes. Imagine that you are trying to sense the person from within. What would you do? Observe or cut?
To be honest, there are no best recommendations or practices for a first date, simply because there is no single first date scenario. First dates are so different, that it is virtually impossible to predict what you should or should not do. You can ask each other about dreams and plans for the future. You can also try to discuss what each of you would like to do together, if the second date comes. In any case, do not get focused too much on your future. Do not start speaking about marriage and children the moment you see your (possibly) boyfriend. Do not make long-term prospects and simply enjoy the moment with a nice guy. This is one of the best ways to turn an occasional encounter into a stable, long-term relationship, based on love, romance, support, and mutual understanding.
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